The Early Learning and Socialization

Can young children learn to be civilized by being with other children their age?

Children learn to be civilized and act as they see around them. What can you teach a toddler to a toddler? Answer: How to behave like a toddler.

Together with some young children with few or only one caregiver to protect them, we are fools if we expect that the result is "socialization."

If a child bites, then the other children who have been bitten learn that biting can be useful for defense. This is not the idea of ​​socialization that mothers want for their children.

Appropriate early stimulation is to provide the right incentives at all times to seek to develop intellectual, social and physical development from BIRTH to 6 years or so. For suspuesto, here also include social stimuli. And what social stimuli needs a toddler?

Young children need is what mom and dad. Children learn what is right from his mother, his father, his grandmother and grandfather, without them they will not learn at all. The longer a young child with his mother every day, the child will be more civilized. The less time you spend with your mother every day, less civilized will. All mothers know this.

Sometimes mothers are convinced that taking their children to day care or "play groups" will teach your children to share. They think this can not teach them at home. Learning to share is an admirable goal and certainly worthwhile, but a two or three years is not ready to share anything. Instead, he will defend their property against anyone who wants them.

The "play group" only holds civilized if every mother is protecting her son's side of the other children of the group. "Learning to share" only begins when a mother grabs the toy truck loved his son and another child leaves, which have a tight grip on him until his mother tells you that you have "shared" some time and take the truck to return it to its small and anxious owner.

If the above scenario happens without a mother next to each child, then the result is much worse. Without a mother to her, the child simply struggling to keep his toy, you can win or be dominated by an older child or more aggressive. The result is learning to fight (hitting, biting ...) or flee. Is this socialized?

Spend more time with your child will have a major impact on their development, a child going to get more mature, friendly and helpful, and create bonds of love forever ...

Nuria Ferres