Son Unique, Difficult Decision

Parents unsure of their decision, they know to ignore the negative comments and it is easier for your child's education, but instead, parents who feel guilty for the criticism of people and sympathize with her son because "poor this by himself" , "poor will not have to play with," "we are bad parents," "going to complain when this big," "will not forgive us" ... can go on the wrong side and overprotective, about caring, about attending to the child.

The way to properly educate our only child, depends only on us parents, having more than one child will not make us better or worse parents, are the ones who ultimately decide if our troops were all the time alone, abandoned , or pamper it too much or we will selfishly.

In a household may have 3 children, but parents do not spend: love, time and discipline, also will grow up alone, so the concept of "one and only Son, Son Solo" is not only applicable only to them, not over- occurs only in "only children" in a family with several children can overprotect the child.

If you parents decided to have an only child, consider the following:

- Avoid excessive attention or provide otherwise not spending quality time. Overprotect not do any good, makes them insecure about their own abilities.

- The given "everything they want" does not value them anything they have.

- Do not treat him as an adult.

- Always listen, ask their opinion, let him decide in some situations.

- Find places where you can live with children his age.

- Avoid too much control over your child.

- Remember everything in excess is harmful.