I do not want separate but I can not go

There are moments in every couple of crises and problems that have to face. The couple like any relationship is always subject to human differences and of course, negotiations taking by force, to be directly related to conflict resolution.

Some couples get a divorce or breakup because communication channels are blocked, they are overshadowed by unpleasant emotions, by silence, anger and also humiliation and abandonment. There are also situations that are intolerable in the life of a couple, therefore, sometimes, even if it hurts, we must take the alternative.

Love helps these conflicts are easier or harder to solve. At the time that the relationship is still a burden of suffering for some of the members or both, is a good time to start questioning this life together. But we need to have specific questions and issues begin to clarify our minds, our emotions, and our sorrows.

How we are being interactions in the relationship:

- You can discuss?

- We can reach constructive agreements for both?

- The talks are aimed at the problem, or we're just fighting, criticizing, humiliating and hurting the partner and the relationship?

In what way is under our living with the couple:

- It is pleasant most of the time.

- The aggressiveness and screams out and echoes all around.

- The silences are not left waiting.

- The lack of respect is a way to attack us.

- They use the children or even third to send messages.

What is the emotional quality of the relationship:

- Aggressive.

- Cordial.

- Conciliatory.

- With frequent anger.

- Claims permanent.

How are sex:

- Frequency.

- Satisfaction.

- Indifference.

- Abuse.

- Never happen.

- Were presented only under the influence of alcohol or other substances.

How is the money management:

- It's fair.

- Only one of the partners have access to monetary decisions.

- Who provides for the most part.

Once you're able to respond to these issues can find the answer, do for you is important to strictly separate you from the partner with whom you are living.

But above all, the most significant is that you become aware of your feelings. But if your relationship you build a pleasant environment that will guide the growth, then you have more choices to be with that partner, but it is a destructive relationship, full of pain and suffering ... only you have the answer.

You're probably experiencing disturbing situations with your partner, and you need guidance or direction of a specialist does not hesitate to consult them.

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