The Damn Codependency

Codependency is a condition that can happen to anyone, when they are involved in a situation of romantic love. And we have no time to reflect on our actions, and how we participate to enter into a relationship of this nature.

Codependency is just a way of relating in intimate relationships. Yes, it is not exclusive for couples only, because we can create links codependent with parents, children, work, or what not ...

Codependency is defined as a way to connect with someone who suffers a form of dependence or alcohol, drugs, work, play, exercise or any behavior that can not control.

Codependent people that their partners are desperately trying to stop drinking, working, buying, playing or any other behavior that apparently is destructive to those whom we love.

People suffering from this condition in their relationships, are more occupied by rescue their partners, to worry or take care of themselves ...

We are busy and preoccupied with our partners to change their behavior, rather than get in touch with painful emotions and figure out how to participate to make this happen.

What is the co dependencies?

Codependency is defined as a way of relating in which a partner, try, try and wants to control the other's behavior. Whether drinking, drugs, overworking, compulsive play, there are many manifestations.

The fact is that we are busy with our partners or partners, rather than ourselves.

It is engaged in the outside living rather than the inside. You live through the actions of the couple rather than their own. Is to maintain a feeling that if your partner changes, we would be happy forever.

The experiences are not so. First we need to take care of ourselves, and then, very soon, take care of the welfare of others, including our partners. However, in relationships that are nurtured codependency, the main question is:

How can remake a life?

In codependency are able to risk everything. Our dignity, our respect, our values, our behavior and feelings for the sake of another. On the other I mean, that other, which is our dearest love.

We support and co-dependent abuse, deception, abuse, years has been observing the phenomenon of domestic violence, and specifically for men who assault their partners in particular.

Codependency is distinguished by the deal the other, and forget ourselves. We are alert to their behavior, their behavior, their attitudes and deny our own findings based on the other.

Codependency is a way of relating. We live for each other. We give ourselves to be happy. We strive for their welfare, but deep down we know that it will not work, but we can not let go.

We tore deeply about their welfare and we forget ourselves. The reality is that if we do not become aware of our own processes, we can not fix our conditions, with a partner or not ...

Codependent people not only depend on the couple. We also rely on the other, coworkers, friends, family.

When they co-dependent situations, surely we have people who have suffered mistreatment, abuse and violence.

The most important thing is to recognize that we are codependents, and choosing partners that allow us to do.

Accept and move on is a possibility. Search psychotherapy is another, having someone you deposit all the fears and sorrows as well ...

Consider, perhaps worth loving yourself more ...

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